Episode 98—Lisa Romeo on “Starting with Goodbye” and the Power of Paper Habits

Lisa Romeo stopped by the podcast to talk all things writing and her new memoir “Starting with Goodbye”. Photo credit Ryder Z.

By Brendan O’Meara

Tweetables by Lisa Romeo (@LisaRomeo on Twitter, @lisaromeowriter on IG)

“I’m one of those weird people who loves revision. To me that’s where the work comes alive.”

“I think it’s important to get perspective from people who don’t write exactly what you write.”

“We write for readers.”

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Episode 98 feature Lisa Romeo (@lisaromeo on twitter), whose memoir Starting with Goodby: A Daughter’s Memoir of Love after Loss (University of Nevada Press, 2018) tells the story of her late father and the continued relationship Lisa has with him in memory. It’s not a downer. Lisa writes it with such great tact that you never feel weighed down. Quite the opposite, really.

She talks about:

  • Brain dumps
  • Writing right away as a form of note taking even while close to the trauma
  • Getting perspectives from people outside your genre
  • And the Power of Paper Habits

That’s it! The first week of two episodes (Here’s the one from True Story Tuesday with Jeff Geiger) in the bank and I’m still alive, though just barely.

Thanks for listening and thanks to Lisa for sharing her story and strategies.

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