Episode 158: Naomi Gordon-Loebl—F*ck, Yeah! Essays

Naomi Gordon-Loebl

“There’s always gonna be people who are better than you, and there’s also people who’re gonna be worse than you, but that can’t be the reason you write or don’t write.” — Naomi Gordon-Loebl (@naomigloebl)

Hey, CNFers, welcome to this installment featuring Naomi Gordon-Loebl, an essayist and journalist whose work has appeared in The New York Times, Hazlitt, and more.

She grew up in a communal household in Brooklyn, has a twin sister, won the parent lottery, and is finding her footing as a writer passionate about LGBT issues, but it was her NYT essay on getting the “yips” that made me reach out.

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Thanks be to Goucher College’s MFA in Nonfiction and Bay Path University’s MFA in Creative Nonfiction for supporting this show.

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Episode 157: Eric Ducker—’I Want This Weirder’

Eric Ducker

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“I want to hear more of you in this. I want this weirder. Let loose.” —Eric Ducker (@ericducker)

By Brendan O’Meara

Hey, CNFers! So Eric Ducker is here. He’s a freelance editor and writer. When he wrote this great piece on Jenny Odell, I reached out to him.

We talk about how important music is to him and the shape of his weeks when he’s pitching vs. when he’s writing. Be sure to check out his work at his Contently site.

Subscribe to the show wherever you get your podcasts. Consider leaving a kind review on Apple Podcasts. If you do, I’ll coach up a piece of your writing up to 2,000 words. Leave a review, wait for it to publish, take a screenshot, send it to me, then I’ll reach back out!

Keep the conversation going on Twitter @CNFPod and Instagram @cnfpod. Facebook is @CNFPodcast. What fun!

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Episode 156: Sonya Huber—Creative Infidelities

Photo credit: Sonya Huber, one presumes

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By Brendan O’Meara

“I think that’s why people stop writing: the not knowing what you’re doing feels so terrible.” —Sonya Huber (@sonyahuber)

Hey…hey, you, how are you?

Sonya Huber is here. She’s the author of these five books:

Pain Woman Takes Your Keys and Other Essays from a Nervous System
Opa Nobody
Cover Me: A Health Insurance Memoir
The “Backwards” Research Guide for Writers
The Evolution of Hillary Rodham Clinton

Be sure to subscribe to the show wherever you get our podcasts. If you leave a review of the show, I’ll coach up a piece of your writing of up to 2,000 words. Write the review, take a screenshot when it posts, email me the screenshot, and I’ll reach back out and get going.

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Repetition, Competency, Confidence

With any skill, it’s through quality repetition over time that leads to competency.

Only when we’re competent at a skill do we swell with confidence.

That’s because the confidence stems from the work.

False confidence—those who spout what they don’t know as if they do know—might buy some time. It’s a coat of paint over a rotten hull. Eventually the bottom falls out.

The process is slow. But repeat a skill. Practice. That leads to competency. Then people will be confident in you and the loop feeds itself. Your new-found confidence will feed into great competency, which will grant ever more confidence.

Episode 155: T.D. Thornton—Horses, Cons, Boxers, Oh, My!

“You can persevere and you can grind, but you have to get lucky at times.” —T.D. Thornton (@thorntontd on Twitter)

“You have to churn out some bad writing to get to good or excellent writing.” —T.D. Thornton

By Brendan O’Meara

T.D. Thornton is a journalist and author.

He wrote Not By a Long Shot: A Season at a Hard-Luck Horse Track and My Adventures with Your Money: George Graham Rice and the Golden Age of the Con Artist.

Consider buying one, or both.

This was a fun conversation and I hope you dig it, and I hope you share it across your networks. Maybe encourage your pals to subscribe.

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Intentionality

Minimalism isn’t about getting rid of things. It’s about doing things with intentionality.

What are you doing that has no intention?

What art are you doing (or not doing) that is flailing?

Intentional art is sticky.

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Remember Why You Started

By Brendan O’Meara

Lately I’ve been a bit down on my work as a whole.

Then something sorta clicked.

I remember when I first wanted to be a writer, I wanted to fuse my love of Hemingway and Vonnegut into something all together my own. The leanness of Hemingway with the wit of Vonnegut.

Then I started to make my voice sound too much like other things, too much like what I thought other people might want me to sound like.

I came to try and write “pretty,” and I hate “pretty,” lyrical writing. It’s not me and, frankly, I don’t like to read it very much. I hate when people try to sound overly literary, and that’s what I was finding with my own work.

So I’ve been writing ugly. I remembered why I started.

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