Episode 7—Richard Gilbert Bought a Farm

Richard Gilbert, author of “Shepherd: A Memoir,” stopped by the podcast in 2014.

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Richard Gilbert is the author of Shepherd, a memoir about his days on an Ohio farm fulfilling a lifelong dream to become a farmer. He raised flocks of sheep, got hurt, dealt with ragweed allergies, the list goes on and on. It’s a wonderful book and I think after listening to Richard you’ll want to devour it and also follow his great blog, Draft No. 4, and follow him on Twitter @richardsgilbert.

The audio to the podcast kinda sucks. For that I’m sorry. There are some points where my Skype connection got real choppy. Other times the audio gets uneven. I’m sorry, but brighter days are coming. Subscribe to Hashtag #CNF on iTunes and sign up for the weekly emailer that updates you on the week’s posts. That’s it! Enjoy!

Brian Koppelman on rejection and writing habits

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This was a great listen, so much so that I’ve listened to it twice.

Brian Koppelman, screenwriter/director to several movies including Rounders and The Illusionist, spoke with Tim Ferriss, author of the 4-Hour Work Week and 4-Hour Body, on the Tim Ferriss Show.

Koppelman talks about rejection and powering through it all. Before he reached the level he’s at now he spent two hours every morning working on a screenplay with his writing partner. That screenplay was Rounders. He made the time. This speaks to many of creatives that may have a day job for the steady income while working on our passion projects.

And in this crazy modern world we live in, I tweeted out to Koppelman just to say how much I appreciated his insights. He replied and retweeted. Pretty cool for a guy in the big time.

Click here to listen to the interview.

The Right Balance: Drafts for You, Drafts for the Reader

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If you have an hour, listen to this conversation on writing between Neil Strauss and Tim Ferriss. Ferriss, while not a master wordsmith (by his own admission) has, at his core, true immersion journalism in his system. He experiments, meets interesting people, and writes about it. If he wasn’t as consumed with life hacking, startups, and tech, he’d make a great narrative journalist. While at Princeton, he took a course with John McPhee. How great would that be!

But it’s what Strauss said about his early drafts that prompted this little riff. At 21:15, he talks about the first draft being for you, being for the writer. It’s the vomit draft, it’s all you want to say. The drafts following are for shaping and crafting. What you wrote in that first draft may not make it into successive drafts. Strauss says, “The first draft is for you; the second draft is for the readers.” I’d rephrase this because it gives a false dichotomy that there are only two drafts. There are many. “The early drafts are for you; the later drafts are for the readers.” You reach that line of demarcation once you being making wholesale cuts, then you know you’ve entered late-draft writing.

For the past five years (!) I’ve been writing, toiling, drafting, cutting, writing more, cutting more, from my baseball memoir The Last Championship. I’m definitely in the late-draft phase. I haven’t touched it in months, which is probably a good thing, but I do have to revisit it at some point. My father isn’t going to be alive forever!

My earliest drafts, and that includes the latest, are pretty harsh at some points toward my father. The more and more I realize it, some of that stuff doesn’t need to be in there anymore, but I needed to write it in the early drafts. I needed to get it out of my head and onto the page. Once there, I could judge its literary merit. I could judge if the reader needs to read the stuff. I could decide if the memoir is too confessional, instead of just laying out a nice story about a father, a son, and their bonds, broken then reformed, by baseball.

The wonderful folks at Summer Game Books, who have taken an interest in the book, wrote me a nice critique. They enjoyed what they read, but figured the book was at its strongest when it adhered to the baseball narrative. Any time it branched off that road it faltered.

My father, at times, behaved in unsettling ways towards me, my sister, my mother, but some/most of that stuff doesn’t need to be in the final product. As I get older, I now realize that we do our best. It’s easy to Monday morning quarterback things. I know he did his best. It could’ve been better, but it could’ve been a whole lot worse. I’m not complaining. The early drafts are too damning to him, too hurtful to read, and, in the end, irrelevant to the overall story.

But the early drafts needed to have it. And that’s my point. I needed to get it out of my head, out of my journal, and onto a public page to better judge. The first draft was for me, now it’s onto the later drafts for Dad, and for the reader.

Hashtag #CNF Episode 6: Three Days in Gettysburg

He’s back for more. Brian Mockenhaupt wrote the compelling Byliner Original Three Days in Gettysburg about the war front hitting home.


I wrote this on Amazon about the piece:

Brian Mockenhaupt, an intrepid and elite reporter of the living, turns his eye to those long gone. And as we near the 150th anniversary of that bloodiest battle at Gettysburg, Mockenhaupt, through his deft skill as an information gatherer, writes a compelling story about friendship, love, and loss in the most famous battle of the Civil War and its putrid wake for those left behind.

It culminates with President Lincoln presiding over a newly created memorial to the felled Union soldiers, a speech where he turns the volume down so we may hear the ghosts of Gettysburg.

And in this latest episode of Hashtag #CNF, Mockenhaupt talks about the challenges of writing historical narrative with nothing to consult but the archives.

Like what you hear? Subscribe on iTunes and subscribe to my blog. If you do, I’ll send you a signed copy of Six Weeks in Saratoga.

Hashtag #CNF Episode 5—Sheri Booker


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Sheri Booker’s memoir Nine Years Under: Coming of Age in an Inner City Funeral Home chronicles her near-decade long experience immersed the culture of death. Everything from picking up bodies to preserving them in the inner sanctum of Wylie Funeral Home.

In it Booker learns that death knows no age and that a funeral home is every bit a part of a community as a church. She also answers the age-old question of whether bodies move on the embalming table or not.

Hashtag #CNF Episode 4: Harrison Scott Key


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I get to interview some pretty cool people doing this humble little podcast. In this latest episode, I speak with Harrison Scott Key about his award-winning essay The Wishbone. The Wishbone won Creative Nonfiction’s Southern Sin essay contest. It is a wildly funny essay about his father bending the rules to win a football game … a pee-wee football game … in which he recruit’s his 14-year-old son—Harrison—to suit up as the team’s integral 11th player.

In this interview we talk about comedy writing and where Key developed his comedic sensibility. Enjoy and share!

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Hashtag #CNF Episode 3 Part 2: Brian Mockenhaupt


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In Part 2 of my interview with Brian Mockenhaupt, freelance journalist and author of the Byliner.com original The Living and the Dead, Brian talks about publishing with Byliner, what America learns from its wars, and the burden of telling such a heavy story. Enjoy.

If you or anyone you know would like to be on the podcast, please email me at brendan@brendanomeara.com and, as always, feel free to leave comments.

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Hashtag #CNF Episode 3: Journalist Brian Mockenhaupt Part 1

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Sometimes you have a great conversation and it lasts ten minutes. Other times you have a great conversation and it lasts 90 minutes. The latter was true for me and Brian Mockenhaupt, a journalist cut from the fabric of Jon Krakauer and Sebastian Junger.

I broke this interview up into chunks. Please enjoy the first installment as we talk about his award-winning masterpiece The Living and the Dead.


Hashtag #CNF Episode 2—Author/Nonfiction Editor Tom McAllister

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If you thought Hashtag #CNF was just a one-and-done kind of podcast, you’ve got another thing coming. I’m at least giving this thing a shot at a sophomore slump. Suckers.

To quote Ren from Ren and Stimpy, “Hark! Hark!” I’ve got a fun one for you today, and every day, so long as you click play.

Let’s face it, it had to be since author and Barrelhouse nonfiction editor Tom McAllister joined me to talk about Bring the Noise: The Best Pop Culture Essays from Barrelhouse Magazine.

McAllister is the author of Bury Me in My Jersey: A Memoir of My Father, Football, and Philly. He is also a professor of creative writing at Temple University and, most recently, is the editor of Bring the Noise. As McAllister riffs in his hilarious introduction, BTN is a treatise “on the the stupid things we love”. Yes, there’s the stupid things we love, but BTN shows how beautiful these stupid things are when in the hands of seventeen artful storytellers whose personal stories elevate popular culture to the adult table.

In it you’ll find professional wrestling, roller derby, Barry Bonds, stalking Aaron Grenier, and the “never-ending reality of The Hills” and, in true Barrelhouse style, the Patrick Swayze question.

I allowed myself one book purchase at AWP Boston. This was it. Best $15 I spent all weekend.
I allowed myself one book purchase at AWP Boston. This was it. Best $15 I spent all weekend.

Hashtag CNF Episode 1: Author Susan Kushner Resnick


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I can’t tell you how excited I am to start this new venture called Hashtag CNF, a podcast about reading and writing with authors in the genre of creative nonfiction. Batting lead off is author Susan Kushner Resnick. We talked about her latest book, You Saved Me Too.

An iTunes subscription link will be available soon. In the meantime, you can subscribe to my blog here to get email updates of my latest entries and interviews. For now, enjoy the great insights Susan shared about her wonderful book.

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