Episode 157: Eric Ducker—’I Want This Weirder’

Eric Ducker

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“I want to hear more of you in this. I want this weirder. Let loose.” —Eric Ducker (@ericducker)

By Brendan O’Meara

Hey, CNFers! So Eric Ducker is here. He’s a freelance editor and writer. When he wrote this great piece on Jenny Odell, I reached out to him.

We talk about how important music is to him and the shape of his weeks when he’s pitching vs. when he’s writing. Be sure to check out his work at his Contently site.

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Episode 156: Sonya Huber—Creative Infidelities

Photo credit: Sonya Huber, one presumes

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By Brendan O’Meara

“I think that’s why people stop writing: the not knowing what you’re doing feels so terrible.” —Sonya Huber (@sonyahuber)

Hey…hey, you, how are you?

Sonya Huber is here. She’s the author of these five books:

Pain Woman Takes Your Keys and Other Essays from a Nervous System
Opa Nobody
Cover Me: A Health Insurance Memoir
The “Backwards” Research Guide for Writers
The Evolution of Hillary Rodham Clinton

Be sure to subscribe to the show wherever you get our podcasts. If you leave a review of the show, I’ll coach up a piece of your writing of up to 2,000 words. Write the review, take a screenshot when it posts, email me the screenshot, and I’ll reach back out and get going.

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Repetition, Competency, Confidence

With any skill, it’s through quality repetition over time that leads to competency.

Only when we’re competent at a skill do we swell with confidence.

That’s because the confidence stems from the work.

False confidence—those who spout what they don’t know as if they do know—might buy some time. It’s a coat of paint over a rotten hull. Eventually the bottom falls out.

The process is slow. But repeat a skill. Practice. That leads to competency. Then people will be confident in you and the loop feeds itself. Your new-found confidence will feed into great competency, which will grant ever more confidence.

Episode 155: T.D. Thornton—Horses, Cons, Boxers, Oh, My!

“You can persevere and you can grind, but you have to get lucky at times.” —T.D. Thornton (@thorntontd on Twitter)

“You have to churn out some bad writing to get to good or excellent writing.” —T.D. Thornton

By Brendan O’Meara

T.D. Thornton is a journalist and author.

He wrote Not By a Long Shot: A Season at a Hard-Luck Horse Track and My Adventures with Your Money: George Graham Rice and the Golden Age of the Con Artist.

Consider buying one, or both.

This was a fun conversation and I hope you dig it, and I hope you share it across your networks. Maybe encourage your pals to subscribe.

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Intentionality

Minimalism isn’t about getting rid of things. It’s about doing things with intentionality.

What are you doing that has no intention?

What art are you doing (or not doing) that is flailing?

Intentional art is sticky.

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Remember Why You Started

By Brendan O’Meara

Lately I’ve been a bit down on my work as a whole.

Then something sorta clicked.

I remember when I first wanted to be a writer, I wanted to fuse my love of Hemingway and Vonnegut into something all together my own. The leanness of Hemingway with the wit of Vonnegut.

Then I started to make my voice sound too much like other things, too much like what I thought other people might want me to sound like.

I came to try and write “pretty,” and I hate “pretty,” lyrical writing. It’s not me and, frankly, I don’t like to read it very much. I hate when people try to sound overly literary, and that’s what I was finding with my own work.

So I’ve been writing ugly. I remembered why I started.

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How to Wake Up an Hour Earlier in 12 Weeks!

The fastest and easiest way is to simply suck it up and set your alarm clock an hour earlier and get out of bed. Have a task of some kind ready to go the minute you wake up otherwise you’ll default to sleep.

But if you have time, a more painless way to get up an hour earlier is to set your alarm five minutes earlier than it is now for one week.

For Week 2, set the alarm for five earlier than Week 1, and so on.

By the time 12 weeks is up, you’ll be up an hour earlier without even knowing it.

What will you do with that extra hour?

Episode 154: Julian Smith—Pitch Clubs, Falling in Love with the Work, and Aloha Rodeo

By Brendan O’Meara

“The more you can immerse yourself in a story the better you can write about it.” —Julian Smith (@julianwrites)

“You gotta fall in love with your subject and sometimes people have to pull you out.” —Julian Smith (juliansmith.com)

Julian Smith is a freelance journalist covering science, conservation, and adventure for publications like Smithsonian, Wired, Outside, Men’s Journal, National Geographic Traveler, and The Washington Post.

He co-authored Aloha Rodeo with David Wolman, a fellow journalist he worked with before on this Epic Magazine piece about two warring ice cream trucks. It’s…epic.

Julian is also the author of Crossing the Heart of Africa and Smokejumper.

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What’s Better than Biography?

By Brendan O’Meara

Well, I’d say a curated book of letters written by a cherished author, even if that cherished author isn’t always a savory figure.

This is great for three reasons:

  1. You’ll find that they have the same hangups you have, the same insecurities and the letters are so honest and, if we’re being honest, reading them is sorta invasive.
  2. They’re dead! With all the wisdom we try to seek from the living through podcasts or YouTube videos to how-to books, letters, memoirs, and biographies of our dead “heroes” is quite possibly the best trove of wisdom we can find.
  3. It’s etched in stone and they can’t talk back anymore.

I like this idea as books as mentors. And when those books are letters, it’s an even greater dive into who they are and how they work.

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What Do You Do When You Hate Your Work?

By Brendan O’Meara

You keep working.

It means you’re probably in the hard part of the project, the place where most people give up and move on to the next shiny thing.

The other option is to quit, but this is the easy road. You’ll start something new and that will get hard and you will hate it and you’ll be right back here all over again.

The more you hate it, the more you need to finish it, so you can move on with a clear conscious.

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